The Bestest Love

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This morning an article came out, it was about preview of one of stories in Hello Counselor that will be aired tonight (25/02). The story was about a girl who's living with her grandparents, she said she even forgot how her mother looks like. As one of the guest panellist, Sungwoon said he could understand what the girl has felt, because he was raised by his grandparents as well.

The respond I read in Twitter make it sounds like Sungwoon's life was so miserable and sad. I don't know but I thought it's nothing miserable at all. Yes, it's such a pity not to live with your own parents like the other common family be. But, if letting your child living with the grandparents guarantee a better environment for him, so why not?

I could see that Sungwoon's parents are good people as well. They choose their children happiness over their greed. I believe it's not easy to be separated with your own child, moreover it was their only son. But their decision make me see that they thought his child should grow up with much much much loves. And perhaps they couldn't provide it at that time, maybe they both were working or so, we didn't know and it's not something we should know too. One thing to note, in order to give the best there will be something to be given up as well.

Sungwoon said that he doesn't have many concern or even feeling in slump much often. I believe it was because he grew up showered by loves, so he became such a positive person like he is today. Sure, he has something to be afraid of, he would be in state where he's feeling unsure and uncertain. Those are all inevitable anyway and that's what makes you human. But he has his own way to come across obstacles life's give him.

Not belittling those who grew up in inharmonic family. To be honest, my family is not ok as well. Living in inharmonious family sure could make you strong and tought, but believe me it's hard to be always positive. You'll be pessimistic over aaanything. There's uncertain, indescribable fear follows you in every decision you would make.

I envy Sungwoon too, for living with his grandparents. I keep saying this to my friends that I want future partner is someone who still have grandparents. I want to know how does it feel to be loved by grandparents too. I was born with only one grandparent from each of my parents, grandpa from my dad and grandma from my mom. But I live quite far away from my grandpa (around 6-7 hours drive) and his relationship with my dad was not fine either, so we rarely went to his home while he was alive. As for my grandma, she used to live with my family for a few months before a big earthquake hit my city. But even before my parents got married, my grandma was hit by stroke. It was only half-stroke but still it affected her activities and communication. Both of them were not someone who says much. Almost all in my family are a BIG TSUNDERE lol. And now, both of them have passed away. So yeah, I don't know how it feel to be loved by grandparents.

After all, he bestest love for your children is to provide the best environment to grow, environment that could give him a lot of loves. It's not have to be directly from his real parents, it could be from anyone, grandparents, step mother, or even step parents. Like Daniel, maybe he was grow up only with his mom, but he is loved and he knows that he is loved, and it shows. There's a certain aura coming from him that he is someone who is loved. So does Sungwoon, I could see that he is loved.